Que Sera Sera

 

When I was just a little girl………

 

I asked my mother,  what shall I be?

Will I be pretty? Will I be rich?

Here’s what she said to me:

“You’ve got to be kidding,  life is really hard.  You will work all the hours you can,  maybe make enough money to pay the mortgage but don’t expect time and money to keep yourself beautiful, that will never happen.

Then when you have kids,  well your life is over.  It’s horrendous,  you’ll never get any sleep.  They cost so much……”

 

Imagine if ‘here’s what she said to me’ was actually more like this:

“Darling you can be do or have whatever you want.  You just need to get into the right mindset and you can do it!  Be lovely to everyone,  even if they are mean to you.  Keep smiling, keep in your vortex and all will be fantastic!”

 

Doris Day sure had a lovely song there.  I wish we would all just teach our children to relax and know that all will always be ok,  no matter what.  Instead they get amazing amounts of stress and pressure put on them.  Well,  in fact,  we will all always be ok.

 

Watch this Abraham Hicks video here: 

I’m going to be totally honest here!

This takes guts and bravery to tell you this…..

 

I’m actually ever so slightly stuck between a rock and a hard place right now.  You see,  my life has transformed like crazily and I love that I can share this with others for them to be able to learn what I have learnt too.  I love blogging and Vlogging (don’t autocorrect that please!) and I’m so keen to make this life online my entire life.  I vlog all the time but didn’t post it yet. 

 

Fear of ridicule.

 

I hear my authors suffer from this and it stops them from opening up.  I have come from a place where I thought life was meant to be tough and tricky.  Never in a million years did I feel I would go ahead and be able to write for a living.  Oh gosh,  course not.  That’s not work is it!

 

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Is it??????????????????

Could it be????????????

 

Well, yes it could couldn’t it! Of course it could.  Why not?  Others do it!  Why do I have a blocked limiting belief around this one.  So much so that I actually don’t write as much as I feel I should/could/ought to.

Write, dammit, just write.  See what happens.

 

Today I have written myself a timetable of work.  This carefully shows the times and places I write and the times and places I do the day job to earn the cash.  I guess its a bit like budgeting with money…. make a plan and stick to it and the world is your oyster.

 

My gorgeous fiance has agreed that we can publish our story.  Now you see for me,  this would involve us making vlogs for Youtube and stuff too.  Although I’ve a feeling there already is an audience there for us.  

My day job involves me being a businesswoman.  Now I’m blonde…..and being totally gooey and in love and thinking the world of my family just makes me look like a hippy not a business woman.

 

I’d rather be a hippy! Of course I would.

 

Hmm……. why do I stumble?  Purely because of making money.  Also judgement.  I don’t want others to judge me either.  

 

I wanna let you guys in..  Well,  you guys are…..

 

Anyway,  can you do me a favour?  Can you come over to my twitter and my facebook and let’s be friends.  Can we? 

 

Twitter for Lola

Facebook for Lola

 

 

 

Looking for fellow bloggers – excite me please!

Afternoon all

 

Wow what a nice day I’m having.  You know one of those days where it seems everyone loves you and gives you a feeling of gratitude as you exchange smiles?  Oh amazing!

 

Ok so here’s the thing.  I’m hoping to get this profile of mine a bit busier but I also really love reading other people’s blogs.  Here’s what I love

 

*Photos

*Life stories

*positivity

*Motivation

 

Let’s connect?|

 

I’d love to know more about you guys. x